Wesley Collected Works Vol 11
| Author | John Wesley |
|---|---|
| Type | treatise |
| Year | None |
| Passage ID | jw-wesley-collected-works-vol-11-534 |
| Words | 396 |
1. THE forbidding to marry, as it is well known the Church
of Rome does, and has done for several ages, (in which
marriage is absolutely forbidden, not only to all religious
orders, but to the whole body of the Clergy,) is numbered,
by the great Apostle, among “the doctrines of devils.” And
* In the year 1743 Mr. Wesley published a small pamphlet under the title of,
“Thoughts on Marriage and a Single Life.” It was afterwards superseded by
the truct now before the reader; which embodies the principal sentiments
contained in the former publication.-En1T. among the same we need not scruple to number the despising
or condemning marriage; as do many of those in the Romish
Church who are usually termed Mystic writers. One of these
does not scruple to affirm, “Marriage is only licensed forni
cation.” But the Holy Ghost says, “Marriage is honourable
in all, and the bed undefiled.” Nor can it be doubted but
persons may be as holy in a married as in a single state. 2. In the latter clause of the sentence, the Apostle seems
to guard against a mistake, into which some sincere Christians
have fallen; particularly when they have just found such a
liberty of spirit as they had not before experienced. They
imagine a defilement where there is none, “and fear where
no fear is.” And it is possible this very fear of sin may
betray them into sin. For it may induce persons to defraud
each other, forgetting the express determination of the
Apostle: “The wife hath not power of her own body, but
the husband; and the husband hath not power of his own
body, but the wife.” (1 Cor. vii. 4.)
3. And yet we must not forget what the Apostle subjoins in
the following verses: “I say to the unmarried and widows, It
is good for them, if they abide even as I. Art thou bound
unto a wife? Seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from
a wife? Seek not a wife. But if thou marry, thou hast not
sinned. Nevertheless, such shall have trouble in the flesh. I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried
careth for the things of the Lord, how he may please the
Lord; but he that is married careth for the things of the
world, how he may please his wife.