Journal Vol1 3
| Author | John Wesley |
|---|---|
| Type | journal |
| Year | None |
| Passage ID | jw-journal-vol1-3-495 |
| Words | 361 |
* When the house was rebuilt, and the children all brought home, we
entered upon a strict reform; and then was begun the custom of singing
psalms at beginning and leaving school, morning and evening. Then
also that of a general retirement at five o’clock was entered upon; when
the oldest took the youngest that could speak, and the second the next,
to whom they read the psalms for the day, and a chapter in the New
Testament; as, in the morning, they were directed to read the psalms and
a chapter in the Old: after which they went to their private prayers,
before they got their breakfast, or came into the family. And, I thank
God, the custom is still preserved among us. There were several bylaws observed among us, which slipped ny memory, or else they had
been inserted in their proper place; but I mention them here, because I
think them useful.
“1. It had been observed, that cowardice and fear of punishment often
lead children into tying, till they get a custom of it, which they cannot
leave. To prevent this, a law was made, that whoever was charged
with a fault, of which they were guilty, if they would ingenuously con
fess it, and promise to amend, should not be beaten. This rule prevented
a great deal of lying, and would have done more, if one in the family
would have observed it. But he could not be prevailed on, and therefore
was often imposed on by false colours and equivocations ; which none
would have used, (except one,) had they been kindly dealt with. And
some, in spite of all, would always speak truth plainly.
“2. That no sinful action, as lying, pilfering, playing at church, or
on the Lord’s day, disobedience, quarrelling, &c, should ever pass unpunished.
“<3. That no child snould ever be chid, or beat twice, for the same
fault; and that if they amended, they should never be upbraided with it
afterward.
“4, That every signal act of obedience, especially when it crossed upon
their own inclinations, should be always commended, and frequently
rewarded, according to the merits of the cause.